HEALING FROM INFIDELITY

Whether it was a physical or an emotional affair, the hurt, heartbreak and feelings of betrayal can be devastating.  For the person who went outside the relationship there is usually tremendous pain as well that can manifest as guilt, shame, fear of loss, and other consequences.

I help couples take this seemingly insurmountable problem and turn it into an opportunity to make their relationship better than it was before the affair. Believe it or not, as painful as affairs generally are on all concerned, there is an opportunity for couples to recreate the relationship and build a much stronger connection. One of the things I love most about my work is helping couples overcome the heartbreak of infidelity, re-build trust and re-invent their relationship in a new and loving way.  I’ve helped more couples reconcile than not following an affair and I believe there is always hope. no matter how difficult it may seem.

Here I’m discussing When Affairs Happen in the Marital Bed on “The Everyday Show,” March 30, 2011.