As “Sex and the City” showed the world, women are just as sexual as their male counterparts. Even Charlotte has some Samantha inside of her. There is nothing I enjoy more than helping women heal and thrive sexually. And I’ve helped hundreds of women get to the bottom of whatever issue they’re currently facing.
Some of the most common concerns I treat include:
While some women just don’t feel like having sex at all or very often, others enjoy sex once they start but struggle with getting started. Unfortunately either scenario can lead to feelings of inadequacy and place stress on a relationship. The first step in the process is for me to learn enough about you that I can understand the cause. Sometimes it is physiological, psychological, relational or some combination thereof. Then we can figure out what treatment approach will work best for you. If I feel that you need a medical diagnosis and you don’t have a suitable physician, I work with some of the best women’s sexual health physicians in the state and will provide you with referrals to medical doctors who are not only excellent at what they do but kind and caring as well.
GAPS IN SEXUAL DESIRE
Contrary to urban legend, in nearly half the heterosexual couples I work with, it is the woman who wants more sex than the man. No matter who has a stronger sex drive, I help couples close the gap. Even if they’re on opposite ends of the desire spectrum and frustration has built up over time, there’s always an opportunity for them to collaborate on a solution if there’s a willingness to change.
I work with some of the leading medical professionals in the field of women’s sexual health, locally and nationally. Common concerns include Dyspareunia, Vulvodynia, Vulvar Vestibulitis and Vaginismus. No matter how severe your situation or how long you have been suffering, there is hope. I have helped many women enjoy pain-free sex, again. If you are in a long-term relationship, it is ideal if your partner will participate in the counseling process.
DIFFICULTY ACHIEVING ORGASM
Some women have never reached orgasm while other women have achieved orgasm however they find it difficult and or it takes too long. I can’t say that I have cracked the code for “all” women that I have worked with, however, I certainly can say that I have helped most of my female clients increase their overall sexual pleasure and achieve orgasm on a regular basis.
WOULD YOU PREFER TO SEE A FEMALE COUNSELOR?
I am totally comfortable working with women on matters of sex and intimacy and find that my female clients are very comfortable working with me. I suspect that I am the only male therapist in Colorado who has a foot long purple vulva puppet in his office! And I only care about one thing: that you receive the best possible care. So if you would prefer to see a female counselor, I’m happy to refer you to one of my female colleagues.